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People don't always need advice...

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More and more, I think this is true. We need to be in relationship in this world with others and the world we live in.

About ivonprefontaine

I have been an educator for almost 20 years. Prior to that, I worked in private industry for 15 years, then returned to university to earn my education degree. For the past 11 years, I have been a co-creator of learning in a unique, progressive, alternative educational school of choice. Currently, I am engaged in a doctoral program at Gonzaga University in Spokane. A main theme in my learning there has been the roles of systems thinking, complexity theory, and organizational theory, and how they apply to education generally and the learning environment I share with students, parents, and colleagues.

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  1. This is so true. In fact, just last night, my daughter was talking about how nice it is to be able to share her thoughts and feelings with someone who actually listened to her in silence, rather than interrupting her and offering her advice she never asked for and didn’t want. This post seems to be in agreement with her, and I think that is awesome. It resonates very deeply with me, too – on several different levels. Thank you for sharing it, Ivon.

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  2. Ein schönes Wochenende wünschen wir.
    Gruß, Wolfgang

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  3. I am sure everyone needs a listening ear at some point in life.

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  4. I know I agree with that statement.

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  5. Just beautiful Ivon no more words needed…!

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  6. So true – sometimes our greatest gift is merely being present :)

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  7. Yes..absolutely.Understanding is much more valuable than giving advice because in order to understand you need to have the emotional intelligence to put yourself in their shoes and sadly ,that remains unachievable.

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