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Prayer of St. Francis

Kathy and I celebrate our 40th anniversary this weekend and we are on our way to Alaska. We used The Prayer of St. Francis (Peace Prayer) as a reading for our wedding mass. As well, we have an inexpensive plaque that sits on a dresser in our bedroom. My mother gave it to us many years ago. When we celebrated my mother’s funeral mass a year ago, we read the prayer, as well.

When I was in Spokane for extended periods, I posted a copy of the prayer on my bedroom wall. It serves as a daily reminder of what we are capable of as humans in relationship with one another. the world, and God in our moment-to-moment living.

The prayer is about the travails and their rewards that we undertake. When I think about love, I recall Thomas Merton‘s saying we call it falling in love for a reason. We open ourselves, risk being hurt, and the rewards are worthwhile. We mind, care, and attend to people and things.

Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is error, the truth;
Where there is doubt, the faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek
To be consoled, as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen.

I am unsure what access to the Internet is like on a cruise ship. I heard it is not good. That means I might be off-line for a week or so.

About ivonprefontaine

I am a retired educator who recently completed a PhD at Gonzaga University in Spokane, WA. My dissertation topic and research was how teachers experience becoming who they are as teachers, as human subjects. For me, teaching is a calling and vocation that allows me to express who I am as a person. Currently, I am waiting and listening to what will call me. We have begun a small consulting and leadership firm called Rocky River Leadership & Consulting Ltd.

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  1. Congratulations on forty years! May grace add many more!

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  2. I’ve always liked that prayer. Happy Anniversary. That’s a pretty significant milestone.

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  3. Congratulations on your 40th. That is a lovely hymn, good words to live by.
    Leslie

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  4. That’s one of my favorite songs! Happy 40th! We celebrated our 47th in February.

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  5. I feel myself singing it. Happy Anniversary!

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  6. This is a beautiful prayer. Congratulations on your anniversary! Enjoy Alaska.

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  7. Happy anniversary, Ivon, and have a wonderful trip. Your prayer is beautiful. 🙂

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  8. A life joined in love that lasts deserves uncommon recognition.
    May the joy you have found together continue to spread far and wide.
    Enjoy your delightful celebration

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  9. Wow, Ivon. Heartiest felicitations to you and your bride! So pleased that all the positivity you sow has also come back to you in a lifetime of love together. xx p.s. Lovely prayer–thank you.

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  10. Congratulations on your anniversary. Thanks for sharing this beautiful prayer.

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  11. What a blessed union! Happy anniversary in advance!

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  12. Beautiful prayer. Happy 40th Anniversary! (*’∀’人)

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  13. Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
    AFTER ST. FRANCIS…WE WILL MISS YOU! RELAX–IVON, YOU DESERVE IT!

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    • It is one that has been with most of my life and I turn to frequently. I spent about 2 years in Spokane WA working on my PhD, completing courses, and starting the dissertation. I printed it and hung it on the wall of my room while I was there.

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  14. Congratulations to you and your wife, Ivon. And blessings to you both! My mother was a big fan of St. Francis…and most of the saints for that matter. I haven’t seen or heard his prayer in a few years, so seeing it in your post gave me great comfort. Safe travels on your trip. It will be 41 years before you know it!

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  15. Hi Ivon

    I hope all is well and I looking forward to your next post!

    Tina

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    • Thank you Tina. I am just getting my head above water again. I think I see a light at the end of the tunnel with my PhD. I writing my research results now, but that included 12 interviews (probably 35 hours or so), transcribing, analyzing, writing, and thinking about emerging themes from the interviews. I hope that I will be back posting, at least part time, in early to mid-August and back full-time in late August.

      Take care,

      Ivon

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  16. Enjoy your vacation to Alaska. I know you will find beauty wherever you go there. This prayer is one of my favorites too and I have a recording of it being sung, which I listen to frequently.

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  17. Happy Anniversary, Ivon! May the peace of this prayer follow you into Alaska – and beyond.

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  18. I hope you’re back someday soon.

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  19. Congratulations! Hope you had a great trip.

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  20. Congratulations 🙂
    Very nice to meet and learn more about you. Thank you for following my blog, I will certainly take time to visit yours as well 🙂

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  21. Thank you so much to post the Prayer of St. Francis. I appreciate it.

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  22. St. Francis blesses my gardens however the prayer you posted above gives me great comfort this morning. Happy travels and thank you for posting this prayer. Sheri

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  23. Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
    GOOD PRAYER AND HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!

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