I looked at this poem a month ago and decided not to post it. As I listened to music today, a song came on called Getting My Mojo Back and felt it was time to post it.
I wrote this during a retreat on Bainsbridge Island based on the work of Parker Palmer. It was at a time I was wrestling with staying in teaching due to the politics. I felt I was not giving it my all and lacked confidence in my teaching.
During the retreat, I reflected and had candid conversations with others and concluded it was time to control what I could control. Interestingly, it was in the conversations with others that I had to choose to be all in really came to the forefront. I went back to my classroom, spent another 5 years teaching, and giving it my all.
I think, when we lose confidence, we do not realize it. It sneaks up on us, rather than being a cataclysmic shift. Recovering confidence is similar. It is done in small steps and realizing we are not alone in the moment.
I had to realize anger was born out of fear and loss. Once I acknowledged this, I was at ease with letting go and moving forward.
It just happens–
Letting go;
Speaking without anger–
Embracing one’s sadness;
For what is lost.
Staring into an abyss–
Sitting with unformed questions;
Terrifying darkness–
Sensing incompleteness,
Feeling uncertainty.
Taking stock–
Looking inwards;
Accepting extended hands–
Discarding baggage
Moving towards a place of light.
Mojo gaining momentum–
Emerging at its pace;
Creating healing space–
Living one’s own truth;
Living in each moment’s question.
I attended a John Lee Hooker concert in 1972 or 1973. I grew up listening to jazz, gospel, folk, and blues with traditional country, early rock and roll. I took it for granted that I attended a John Lee concert until an American, who shared a love for the blues, told me he never did. African-American performers toured in Canada on a regular basis at a time they did not have that same ease of movement in their own country.
When I used Langston Hughes’ poetry in my teaching, I remembered he wrote from a different understanding of what America was. This was an outgrowth of an awareness of my privilege as a white Canadian male.