Life has aspects we cannot change about and worrying simply comes to nothing as Mary Oliver suggests. There are many things we do not control even when we think we can. It is important to let go and recognize these phenomena as part of the unfolding of life.
Although Mary Oliver includes phenomena outside our control, she includes advice on how to deal with the lack of control. We can go out and sing or act in ways that are creative and life-giving. We can accept the world as it is and not try to correct it. Nature will do what she naturally learns to do. Our role is to be in the world, live in it lovingly, and attempt to do no harm in our living.
We control certain phenomena in the sense we can avoid what is destructive, but there are things that we learn and taught in living naturally.
I worried a lot. Will the garden grow, will the rivers
flow in the right direction, will the earth turn
as it was taught, and if not how shall
I correct it?
Was I right, was I wrong, will I be forgiven,
can I do better?
Will I ever be able to sing, even the sparrows
can do it and I am, well,
Is my eyesight fading or am I just imagining it,
am I going to get rheumatism,
Finally I saw that worrying had come to nothing.
And gave it up. And took my old body
and went out into the morning,
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Through my mindfulness practice and application, it unfolded for me that we control so little it is amazing.
We control where we place of attention, the greatest influence in life and our attitude.
Anything else is damn near impermanent and will change on its own.
Just a thought.
It is a great thought Marty. We are lucky when we control our attention, as well. It is hard work.
I ran across this and thought of you before I posted it. Would love to hear your wisdom and opinion on these two regular guys. Haha
It is a wonderful post Marty.
I have a pain in my right elbow. sorry
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Enjoyed that poem very much.
Such a meaningful poem. Thank you.
You are welcome Mandy and thank you.
Such a wonderful poem. I’m still in training to let all worry go, but making some progress – liberating!
I think we are in training all our lives. We practice to get up from sitting so we can use what we learn on the cushion in life. It is no easy process.
I love Mary Oliver’s writing. Stephen Covey has the same message ….. but it is so dry! The Serenity prayer barely touches the surface. Thank you for sharing her energy and spirit Ivon.
You are welcome Val. Poetry takes those surface messages and digs deeper. I think that is why poets like Mary Oliver speak to some of us.
Thanks for sharing this poem.This came perfectly right on time when I need a stronger push to let go… 🙂
You are welcome. I am glad you found the share timely.
Well, you know I love M.O.
And you summarized what I was expressing to my husband, just last night, quite beautifully:
Our role is to be in the world, live in it lovingly, and attempt to do no harm in our living.
I was saying that the things that ‘make’ me happy are probably misunderstood by many – it’s living in the world, as you describe, (and I would add) – knowing how messed up our species is and what we are collectively acting out here – yet still loving it and loving them and loving just being here. It’s all a miracle.
Yes, it is a miracle that we live in such a space and world. Thank you for a wonderful comment.
I love this – this is good, and exactly what we should do!! 😀 Of course worry is actually another form of fear, and fear does seem to be one of our greatest battles – I wonder sometimes if it is our only battle, and our minds dress it up with other stupid stuff. I shall remember this perfect advice next time I get caught up! 😉